If you have never taken the voyage into using sex toys before, there are a few things you should know before you get started. You may be a little nervous, and that's OK, it's perfectly normal.
By educating yourself before purchasing your first product, you will not only feel more comfortable about your purchase, but you will be more confidant that you are getting the right product for you.
We hope that this little guide will help you in your decision making process. If you have any additional questions, feel free to contact us.
Make Sure It's Body Safe
Regardless of the type of product you are looking for, what it is made out of should be your first concern. Check the packaging and see what it's made out of. Phthalates Free is important as well. Some of the most popular body safe materials are 100% (Or medical grade) silicone, Elastomer and Glass. If you are unsure about the product, ask the sales representative. If they don't know the answer, you may consider finding elsewhere to make your purchase where the employees are properly educated on the products they sell.
To learn more about the different materials sex toys are mader from, check out our page on Product Materials for more information.
Know Your Comfort Zone
Unless you have used specific toys before and know your comfort level, don't let a sales person push you into a specific product. If YOU don't feel comfortable with a product, move onto another one. Just because it's popular doesn't mean you need one too, your comfort and willingness to try a product are more important than anything else.
It's very important that you are relaxed and at ease when using toys, or you may end up having a less than pleasurable experience. It may take a time or two for you to be fully comfortable using a toy and to explore it further than the basics, and that's OK.
Don't Be Afraid To Ask Questions
Remember, you are new to this, and it's perfectly acceptable to be asking questions. If the person you are dealing with is unpleasant or doesn't seem interested in helping you, you are probably better off taking your business elsewhere. Exploring your sexuality can and will be a little nerve racking at times, so when you're taking the steps into making your first (second or tenth) purchase, you should be in an environment that you feel comfortable asking questions about the product, or sex in general.
If you don't feel comfortable asking in person, try sending an email or finding an online forum where you can start a discussion anonymously. While talking about sex is still taboo in many religions and with many people, an adult boutique should be a place where you can shed your inhibitions to help you explore your deepest desires without fear of being mocked or ridiculed for participating in such a natural and gratifying act.
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